The Following
stories are sample cases of Whaley Children living the philosophy
of the Circle of Courage.. The names have been changed to protect
their privacy.
Mastery...
Todd came from a biological home that was extremely physically abusive
as well as had a history of mental illness. He has not heard from or
seen his biological mother in over 12 years. He lived with his father
and stepmother for a number of years and was the black sheep in the
home and was not treated like a member of the family. He was physically
and emotionally abused by his stepmother and his father never protected
him from the abuse. Todd was falsely accused of violence and rape towards
the stepmother and stepsister.
Todd came to Whaley Children's Center
just over a year ago, after numerous hospitalizations. He was a quiet,
shy, and scared young man. He rarely
opened up to others and was very unsure of himself. Slowly, Todd was
able to find inner strength and start to grow. Staff gave him opportunities
to test himself and teach him new skills. His therapist was able to
help him overcome his past and focus on his future and be successful.
Todd is now a confident, out-spoken, and caring individual.
This summer he had the opportunity to attend a summer camp where
he overcame some of his fears by participating in the high and low
ropes
course as well as in the drum line. He has also learned to cook and
explore his feelings through journal writing. Most impressively he
was able to pass both the written and performance adult and child
CPR class/test on the first try. He was also able to make one of his
dreams
come true by building his own racecar. Todd wants to be a NASCAR driver
when he gets older and this was his chance to put his dreams and thoughts
into action. He built his car successfully and was able to race on
the final day of camp. The camp counselors were so impressed by Todd’s
willingness to try new things and try to overcome fears that they “invented” an
award after him. He will be the first to have his name on the plaque
for the award.
Todd is a motivation for all of us. He came from a tainted
past and with encouragement, love, and acceptance he has grown into
a model
citizen and a role model for both children and adults.
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